Life is an ever changing phenomena. You can never stay at a single point in any circumstances. There are good and bad times in life. If you are in a drastic condition in life, you should know how to make a way out. If you are feeling upset because of something and someone, do not judge that situation or person. You will not like to be judged or misunderstood by anyone so try to understand the essence of other’s view. Always remember that everything happens for a reason and every one is having their own battle in their life.
“The real battle is within yourself”
Before judging someone, come back sit for a minute and write everything you felt bad for. This will let you analyze the problem in depth. The deep analysis will provide you with the kind of battle being faced by different people. There may be times when you must be having a storm inside that is creating a situation of havoc in your life. Understand yourself and fight for the right. The real battle of yours is not with anyone else but yourself. You can choose to either blame people or sit with regrets but this will not solve your problem. Let us understand why?
There is a famous saying that says “All that you do comes back to you”. This is not just a quotation, it is more than that. If you will judge someone, someone else will judge you and even in a more drastic way. If you want happiness in life, you have to start spreading happiness. It takes time but it will all settle down. Once you start analyzing yourself, you will get to know the root cause of every problem.
“It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles”
Understand your battle, fight with that. Learn to surf in your storm and stop blaming and judging the circumstances. For this will increase the problem and ultimately one day every blame and judgement will come back to you.
Start your day with zeal, win your battle and it will only lead you to emerge successful in life. When you will win the battle from within, you will able to fight anything that comes in your way.